Step 4.4.3: Understanding Verbal & Non-Verbal Communication
Smile when appropriate during the interview. Be enthusiastic
and responsive. As you talk about your past and present activities in answer
to questions, your passion and energy can be communicated both through the words
of your stories and your body language (e.g., an excited tone of voice, leaning
forward, nodding your head in agreement). Maintaining eye contact is important;
failure to do so may imply a lack of confidence or, worse, cause the employer
to question your truthfulness.
Sit comfortably, without slouching. Don't put anything on your
lap or in your hands as it will restrict your natural body movement and you
may be tempted to ‘play’ with it. Keep your clipboard, note pad, briefcase,
or portfolio on the floor beside your chair for easy retrieval when necessary.
Respond to questions specifically and concisely but give sufficient
details to enable the interviewer to evaluate your credentials. Interviewers
become frustrated when they have to listen to long rambling answers. Think before
you speak. It is quite acceptable to pause before talking in order to organize
your thoughts. Avoid verbal fillers such as ‘um,’ ‘ah’, ‘you know’, etc., or
repeating the question in order to provide thinking time. Use business language.
Avoid slang. Speak clearly.
Prepare in advance to talk about any topic that you are concerned
or feel uncomfortable about. If there is something that you don’t want an interviewer
to inquire about, you can be sure that somehow the interviewer will sense it,
and ask. Practise your answer out loud often enough to feel confident when saying
it. Maintain poise and self-control. Consider a difficult issue as a learning
opportunity, which has made you a better person.
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